Proverbs 11:16 A gracious woman retains honor, but ruthless men retain riches.
Gracious- favor, pleasant, agreeable (Vines). marked by kindness and courtesy, markedly considerate of another’s feelings (Webster‘s).
Ruthless (strong KJV)- tyrannical, oppressive (Strong’s, Vine’s). Merciless, pitiless, relentless, unsparing. (Webster’s)
Honor- glory, wealth, reputation, splendor.
The context of this verse contrasts the wicked and the righteous, the honest and dishonest, the ruthless and the gracious. The parallel between honor and riches is interesting. Honor can mean or include riches, but in this context is seems to refer to one’s position within the sphere in which she lives, the honor and respect other show toward her because of her actions and personality.
A ruthless man may well obtain riches, and even a form of honor. The world around us and history bears this out, but history also shows what becomes of such men.
Acquiring wealth may not be evil in and of its self, but at what cost? what are you willing to trade for them? and what will the long term consequences be?
What is more important to you?
