15:1

Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

The purpose of correction is to save, to help, and to heal. Our motivation should be love; a genuine desire for the welfare of others without any expectation of anything in return. Far too often we seek out flaws in others to make ourselves seem better. We tear other’s down to lift ourselves up. While there are times when harsh, bold words are called for, we should remember the natural reaction to an attack is to defend, or even counter attack. The more condescending we are, the less likely we are to receive a positive reaction. We would do well to remember we too have fallen short, and that with what judgment we judge, we will be judged. Can we live up to the standards we have for others?